The Budget

Monica: (To Chandler) How great are you, you little saver?! I mean, the-the amount you have is exactly the budget of my dream wedding!
Rachel: (starting to cry) Ohh, you guys are so made for each other.
Chandler: Well, you’re not suggesting that we spend all of the money on the wedding?
Rachel and Monica: Ah, yeah!
Script courtesy of FriendsCafe

Determining how much to spend on, lets face it, a party, can be pretty daunting, and often the souce of much frustration during the planning.  Is $100 a head too much? Yes.  Do I really need programs? No.  Will my guests care if I don't provide them a favor? No. 

Sticking to preset guidelines (and percetages) is a great way to make sure you stay on budget.  That being said, I've always maintained that a couple should have one big splurge.  Something that regardless of price, within reason of course, they want to have.  Whether it be a premier photographer, a dress, a photobooth, food, it's one thing that they weren't willing to compromise on. 

Now, if splurging happens to be your middle name, I suggest you think about changing it.  Brides often talk about having champagne tastes for a beer budget.  Or that their eyes are larger than their stomach.  It's important to keep this in check while you're planning.

Here's a general breakdown:
Reception: 48%-50% (this includes rental fees, food, and booze)
Ceremony: 2%-3% (this includes rental fees, officient, and donation)
Attire: 8%-10% (your dress, hair and make-up, and his tux)
Flowers: 8%-10%
Entertainment/Music: 8%-10%
Photography/Videography: 10%-12%
Stationery: 2%-3% (this includes postage too!)
Wedding Rings: 2%-3%
Parking/Transportation: 2%-3%
Gifts: 2%-3%
Miscellaneous: 8% (this includes favors, tips, etc)

Image courtesy of Bridesmaid.com